Your loved ones does not such as you working towards Buddhism, many individuals have that scenario. Why is that? As a result of they love you. All human beings wish to defend the folks they love. As a result of all human beings have an thought of what’s right life and what’s good for his or her household and their kids. Everyone has that.
Eugene is director of a Zen Heart in Czechoslovakia. His dad and mom are No.1 good Catholics and have by no means heard of Buddhism. Buddhism in Jap European international locations is basically new and other people take into account that it could possibly be a cult. After ending a seven-day retreat, Eugene stated, “Su Bong Soen Sa, let’s go to my mum or dad’s place and take slightly relaxation.” Straight away, I used to be slightly uneasy – “That’s OK along with your dad and mom?” So he stated: “Don’t fear.” Then we went there. After we arrived at his home, his mom put out meals, all vegetarian. They by no means ate vegetarian however she put out vegetarian meals. After the meal, I laid down and slept on the sofa subsequent to the eating room, as a result of I may understand his mom’s thoughts could be very open. The sensation to us is like – “You’re my son. To me, you’re household.” So I may try this. However nonetheless I didn’t perceive.
At round 9 o’clock, Eugene’s father got here house. Eugene stood up from his seat and went to the cupboard, took out his father’s eyeglasses, held them, and stated “Dad, sit down, please.” He gave to his father the eyeglasses, then launched us to him. Then I understood, this Eugene is No. 1 right son. Not depending on his apply or what he believes or not believes, all the time he has right relationship, perform and scenario to his household.
So his household does not care, meditation working towards or demon working towards. Most vital is what’s our son’s relationship to us. That’s the proof. “One motion is best than ten thousand phrases”. One motion – what you’re doing, is past dependency on identify and type.